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I feel trapped and stressed. Or depressed even. I hope that

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I feel trapped and stressed. Or depressed even. I hope that I will see him, and yet I pray that I won't. Our divorce is almost final, only the reconciliation-order remains. I don't want him back. I don't want to ever face the emotional abuse again. But I struggle to let go. To make peace with being single again. This is confusing. I wish I Could emigrate or run and hide. But I realize that I would be trying to hide from myself and my emotions. Any advice on what to do will be most welcome

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Feb 13

I understand. That was how I felt when my ex husband and I divorced over 25 years ago. What kept me stuck in that mode of not having closure was the fact I held onto a dream of happily ever after that could not be fulfilled in my marriage. I discovered this in counseling after 3 years of not being able to file for divorce during our separation. Finally I just bit the bullet, pulled the plug, went ahead with the paperwork. He never fought it and I was able to move forward. Is is possible your dream of happily ever after can't die?

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