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Well it’s done. My husband and stepson have moved out. I

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Well it’s done. My husband and stepson have moved out. I feel so numb and lost right now. The pain is so real. I can’t believe this has happened. I can only hope the pain eases soon. Words of encouragement appreciated

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Oct 9

@Cup919 Your pain must be terrible since a child is involved. I know the pain since with my first divorce, I thought I'd never see my daughter again. Know this is not your doing. Is the child ok? Hopefully, he will take good care of him. It will take some time; try to just focus on yourself and your well being.

Oct 9

It’s so hard and unfair and I’m sorry. You will get through this. It’s not easy but you will!

Oct 10

@Cup919 really sorry to read your post; I'm going through the exact same thing: my husband left with his son just a few weeks ago. It might sound silly but it helps me to know it's a 'shared' pain, to know that we're not alone in this.
A couple of things that are 'working' for me, most have been mentioned already! To accept that right now, this is the way things are, they are tough, raw and we wish they were different. They are like this now, but they will get better, because we won't stay like this forever! Love will come our way again.
My exhusband complaints about several things that I did or I said, even when I never meant to hurt him; the guilt can be toxic so try to stay away from it. Speaking with others who have been through this and are now in a happier place is particularly useful and healing!
Finally, I came across this site that has loads of tips! https://lessonsfromtheendofamarriage.com/
Let us know how you're getting on.

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