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We formally ended a whirlwind relationship where tomorrow wo

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We formally ended a whirlwind relationship where tomorrow would’ve been one month.

I’m back to being alone but I know it’s best for me now despite feelings of loneliness almost instantly again. I guess I wasn’t as ready as I thought.

I’m moving forward on an apartment I signed up for but couldn’t view because of covid. She was actually going to get me a housewarming present and do all the shopping with me to get the new stuff.

Because I’m moving in mid month it’s an extra $500 to cover at the onset which I didn’t expect.

My stbx sent a general proposal over a few weeks ago and me and the attorney modified it to state she is choosing a severely low paying position out of selfishness but has the ability to earn so much more based on her work history, This enraged her.

I received a counter proposal that is now asking for $650 more per month and that makes it near impossible for me to survive on my own.

I just want out of this house and away from her as soon as possible and it pains me to be here now. It pains me my 3rd date went so wrong with someone who felt so right, it pains me that I’m going to have so little left over to rebuild my life, and the rollercoaster of this experience is definitely struggling uphill at the moment.

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Jul 31

Sometimes when we are alone we will jump at anything to take us out of our feeling that nobody is ever going to want you. I definitely felt that way. I had physical issues that caused me to walk bent over a little bit and walked pigeon toed and on top of that I wore super thick glasses. Yep I was a real catch, a walking birth defect. But God has a mate and a plan for all of us. God provided me with my mat and we have now been married 36 years in August. So don't count yourself out, be patient and you will find the perfect mate that is planned for you. Here are some references that might help and encourage you. http://bit.ly/2X3yZgY
Prayers that you and your mate find each other.

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Jul 31

@Jimdubu thank you for this I really appreciate it.

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Aug 8

Prayers for you my friend.

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