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Two years ago today I was waiting for my husband to get home


Two years ago today I was waiting for my husband to get home and we were going to go to a concert at our state fair.I had bought tickets for a band he loved. His behavior had been very strange the last few weeks, so I , for some reason, decided to look at our phone bill,,,and there it was ...hundreds of texts and phone calls to one number. I googled, saw her picture, realized she was the mother of my stepsons friends...He did not answer his phone when I called, but called me back about 5 minutes later to say he was on his way home. The rest is a blur really...fast forward two years,,,separated, filing for divorce, house sold, boat sold, jet ski sold.......I have no words today...this song by Jason Gray pretty much says it for me:
I know someday
I know somehow
I'll be okay
But, not right now
No, not right now
Don't tell me when I'm grieving
That this happened for a reason
Maybe one day we'll talk about the dreams that had to die
For new ones to come alive
But not right now
I read on here today where somebody went to court and was pronounced divorced at 10 am...I am crushed for that person, for all of us here who have been treated so poorly for just being us. I feel sorry for all who have been rejected...it cuts to the bone and scars our hearts. I know i cannot be a victim and victorious at the same time...I have hope, for me ...and for all of you too.

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Aug 16

@nenny72 Yes I understand that. You have to find yourself again. Do things you enjoy, keep busy. Take care of yourself. I think people want to comfort and defend us and they don't really know what to say or do.

Sep 13

@Ellen4550. Just reading through posts and comments this morning. My mom also made clothes for me and she made all her own clothes. She died when I was 22 at the age of 38. Your comment reminded me of a happier time....

Sep 13

@countrytime I’m sorry for the loss of your mother..it’s rough ! I’m glad you have good memories


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