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This weekend was another doozie. I went to the grocery store

eddie1975's picture
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This weekend was another doozie. I went to the grocery store Friday and didn't leave the house again until work this morning. I posted earlier about the police coming and waking me up Saturday because my ex and her parents were coming to my house trying to get my 12 year old's phone back because they were all arguing. I told the police to stay out of my house and no one was getting anything back because of some whiny child abusing adults who act like teenagers when they don't get their way. I told him to go away and take my ex in-laws with him, who were sitting outside my house. I way beyond over this teenage nonsense. I told him to tell them to do whatever they legally have to do to get the phone back but she is not handing it over because they gave it to her two months ago after I grounded her from the one I pay for. I said Karma sucks man, for them. I think it pretty funny actually. I bet they regret getting her that phone now. LOL

Then my new biggest problem. My sister has a friend that she gave my number to and this woman texted me Friday night and then called me. We talked on the phone for about 4 hours. She's a hot little Hispanic woman. The problem??? I didn't realize how broken I really am. I panicked the whole weekend thinking about her. I'm scared to death to talk to this woman anymore. I tried to talk future talk with her and not mention anything about my past. I told her that too. I want to look forward, not backwards, but I don't feel lovable. I don't feel any security in a relationship. I feel like by getting into a relationship I am stupidly setting myself up to be re-broken. I talked with my friend in California who I met on here last year and he is the same way. He was giving me advice but it's still hard to imagine being loved again.

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Scat's picture
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Mar 31

@eddie1975 with regard to any future relationship, I agree with what FiftyYoung said. Firstly forgive yourself for whatever mistakes you feel you've made because you know they were all paid at the cross. So just lay them down there like its the tomb and you rose from it new in Jesus. With regard to a new love, I agree that you are better off starting as friends and easing further into it because how you've been hurt, you are so very vulnerable. It will also take a very remarkable woman of fortitude to want to deal with your life knowing your ex is always a factor because of your children. And you'd want someone who would love children, your children, so very much. Anything less would be not so good. Continue to pray about this endeavor as I know you already have. Your 12 y.o. the cell phone, police and ex, all of that your new love will be hearing about, oy. She'll have to love you so much to want in on all of that. But you truly deserve that sort of love for sure.

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beth65's picture
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Mar 31

@eddie1975 I would not let my 12 year old dictate that she is going to go live at a friend's house nor would I take her back to her mom at this point. I cannot believe she said her friend would adopt her when you're a perfectly good parent.

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Scat's picture
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Mar 31

@eddie1975 What a crazy mess. Her friend's parents can't let her move in without parental approval. That's just manipulation, eddie. Plain n simple.

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