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this roller coaster needs to stop ! Y DO I FEEL like a out s

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this roller coaster needs to stop ! Y DO I FEEL like a out sider with my own kids????? btw I'm tired of sacrificing, as rt now I feel like crap I don't know how to explain it but that's how I feel rt now

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rikk's picture
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Apr 16

@Scat rt now the x controls that I

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rikk's picture
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Apr 16

I felt that she wanted to work things out by calling me asking me to if I wanted to hang out with her I was wrong I guess now as usually im the bad person when I gave up so much I cant believe this and now she told me my older kids expect me not to be in there lives wow to hear that hurts when she is the mom and should tell them no your dad will be around ?? am I right ???? we are divorce I think we should act like it only talk about the kids ???

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Apr 16

It is selfish to use the kids as a weapon in the divorce. I remember when I was divorced from my ex, I would tell my daughters if their dad couldn't see them, that he really wanted to see them but he had to work that weekend. My step son told me his mother would tell him his father didn't love him or want to see him, which was a flat out lie. But sometimes an ex will do that and hurt the child just to punish their ex. It's very immature and selfish. I think the best you can do is make sure your kids know you love them and wanna see them. Maybe if you could call or text them, maybe email them or send them a card in the mail. The kids will know the truth in the end.

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