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So, here I am 4 years later never thinking I would be back o

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So, here I am 4 years later never thinking I would be back on this site . My H did it to me again. Took half of our savings to go buy an RV and took off . Always turns things around. My fault cuz hes tired of sitting around . Its my fault that the country was closed down I guess ????

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mmadlecl's picture
Jul 4

@decisionstomake That's a new one on me. Your attorney calls him an a hole. lol

chimama's picture
Jul 4

@Last to know I know how you feel. I was always the faithful and loyal wife. I didn't find out he was cheating on me with a co-worker ( although I suspected something was up) until after we divorced and I went to pick up my son and her car was in the driveway. She moved in already! I wish I hadn't trusted him during our divorce proceedings and had gotten a lawyer of my own. Trust me, you are absolutely doing the right thing for yourself.

Jul 4

@mmadwaite Yes unfortunately love is blind. I had thought about leaving him sooner than I did but the problem was was that I still loved him. I had decided that since I had still loved him that I would try my best to make things work. Yes I agree there are the plans you make together, the future things you plan on doing together as well as the companionship. But the thing is I was blind to his abuse and manipulation and couldn't see or realize his control. Now that I have been away from him I see things more clearly. I also find it helpful to be on this site and get other peoples perspectives on living with a narc.


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