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So all along I have been trying to figure out why he changed

444ever's picture
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So all along I have been trying to figure out why he changed. I was making excuses. Wondering why he stopped talking to his family. Well because he was hiding his affair with one of his employees. His father (which he stopped talking to) confronted him and told him to stop. I thought my husband was depressed and lost but he was just having an affair. I wanted to help him. I guess that was the empathetic person in me. I need toughen up and realize not everyone is kind including the person you sleep with for 22 years. The strange thing is she a skank, so different from me. I guess exciting....my kids are shocked because they feel like they have been cheated on too. I need to toughen up, I can do this.

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[3720]
Feb 12

I have to view it has don’t underestimate the impact of an affair. It changes everything; it totally changes people.

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[1945]
Feb 12

I am so sorry you are going through this. My husband is having an affair as well with a woman that he works with. We actually all worked together. They both left the job and now work somewhere else together. I know it’s a tough pill to swallow. I do not know who my husband is anymore. He left his family to be with this woman. He will realize the mistake he has made. Just keep the faith and know you deserve better. We all do.

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444ever's picture
[1275]
Feb 12

They fired her when the discovered the affair which is why my husband walked away from the family business that he ran after 17 years...I couldn’t understand why and was told an elaborate story. Now it all makes sense. It’s a tangled web of betrayal....I should make a **** Lifetime movie.

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