She's leaving, wants a divorce. Says we've grown apart, I ca
She's leaving, wants a divorce. Says we've grown apart, I can't fill the void she has in her heart though I once did. Only been married a year, though it hurts cause I identified myself as her husband first and foremost. It isn't sudden, she mentioned things not being great, her not being happy a few months back, I didn't think it was this bad. Silly me. I think eventually I'll be ok, I hope so... but the truth remains that I love her, like sharks love blood, that's how I love her.
I feel ya. Feel the same way. I was so drawn to and into my wife. She was like a magnet for me. But she has made a decision and there's no turning back. I'm leaning on friends and family. Trying to do a hobby to keep mind of things. Trying to fall out of love with someone is tough. Just believe in yourself that you can do it and will be ok.
Rojos33 Sorry you are at this point! I guess one thing I have realised is that there are two types of people in a marriage, one that stays and one that leaves. I stayed! Its painful when you're a 'stayer'. You wonder how your spouse has reached to the conclusion of divorce before its even entered your head that something is wrong in the marriage. People sometimes lose their way in a relationship, but 'stayers' always believe in love and marriage and that's why they stay.
I think there are a lot of people here that feel the same way, including myself. The void and pain is real. I learned the hard way, it was only after all stuff hit the fan, did I realize what I could have and should have done before the bombshell dropped.
She keeps saying everything will be ok no matter what happens. I would like to think that is true. I know it will be, but that road is uphill and seems endless.