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Okay, can I scream here for just a minute? WHY DID HE CHOOSE

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Okay, can I scream here for just a minute? WHY DID HE CHOOSE HIS LYING/CHEATING/GETTING HIGH OVER OUR MARRIAGE??????!!!! WHY WAS I NEVER WORTH THE EFFORT?????!!!! I guess he never loved me. : ( Okay, got that out of my system for now. That was my thought for the day this time.

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eddie1975's picture
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Dec 7

@Scat I just want to poke somebody's eyes out. Somebody that deserves it. They didn't read all the relationship books the church gave them or the divorce statistics I gave them. They couldn't see the good thing that was clearly in front of them. What good are their eyes? LOL

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Dec 7

@eddie1975, I didn't know you went to all those lengths to reach your wife. : ( I really think one day she'll regret her decision. I know for now that is no consolation though. I'm truly sorry you were put through that and treated so poorly. I should remember to pray for your ex-wife, a wayward sister in Christ. : (

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Blueberries1234's picture
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Dec 7

@eddie1975 I mean you could, but it would just create more suffering in the world and give them another reason to be a victim and spew more hatred. I feel angry too though. Sometimes it eats me up. It's so hard to let go of the pain people gave us and we felt helpless like we had to accept it. Want to punch something. Scream. Yell. Kick and say mean things and throw terrible words at them. But the words dont sink in for people, they dont realize that they hurt you... they will still see themselves as the victim and that no one understands them and that we oppress them.... etc. Idk what to do with all the anger inside me, without turbing it into helplessness and self/life hating depression. It's so hard sometimes.

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