My wife left me about a year ago. For awhile I felt like I w

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My wife left me about a year ago. For awhile I felt like I was feeling stronger every day. But this past week I feel like I've been relapsing and am just so sad all the time. I can barely face getting out of bed every day

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Aug 11

No thankfully we didn't have any kids. This is my second divorce. I know you have to feel the pain. I guess coming up on a year is making me really think about how sad I am. I just can't shake it.

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Aug 14

@HurtHubby - "OUR house." Wow, this rings so true to me. I am living in OUR house, and I hate it, because it will never by MY house. I was planning to relocate out of state and buy a new place, but things with my job have left me in the house my husband and I once shared together, and I am so sad at having to live here alone. I had a priest come and bless OUR house and say prayers with me, and after that I feel somewhat better, but it's still so hard. So many memories here, and now empty rooms where he took the furniture, pictures, and things I loved. I am having to buy him out, even though he is the one who left me for his subordinate co-worker, and I only hope I can keep my job (questionable after 25 years) and afford to live here. I think you should get a house that you can call YOUR OWN. That's what I was planning to do. I think it's a great strategy. Take care, good luck moving forward, and God bless you.

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Aug 14

Thank you all so much for the support. The truth is I really want to keep the house. Like I keep saying, my business is located here and it would be very difficult and costly to move. Since she has gotten her stuff out and I have gotten some new stuff and put new pictures on the walls it feels more like my house. I am goin to fight to keep it. If I lose oh well, I move on. But I actually really like it here. But I do so appreciate everyone's kind words! I hope I can help you out someday. I went to a divorce care support group that I found online yesterday. I also got an app called meetup and they have a divorce recovery group. I joined that, and one of the members is hosting a get together at her house a week from this Saturday night, from 6:00-9:00 PM. I am strongly considering going to that. So I hope those things are helping to pull me out of this. And you guys as well ❤️ Thanks again. Going to bed. Everyone have a great day tomorrow!

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