My husband came home work last week, said he cheated and wan

My husband came home work last week, said he cheated and wanted to leave. After six years together (four married), he says he doesn't want a relationship. He hasn't left yet, he's still living here. I don't know what to do. It's so hard being around him, especially since he's still seeing the girl he cheated one me with. I need to let him go, but I can't. I love him so much. I have to learn to let go but where do you start?

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Jul 17

@shysky My situation mirrors yours in every way. My husband and his co-worker plotted for nearly a year before he dumped me. He was diagnosed with cancer, and mynusefulness ended after a year of his surgery, treatments, doctors' visits, and me taking care of his tubes and diapers. When it was all over, he left me for her. She did not want to do all the medical things. His cancer may very well return, and if it does, she can take care of him. He is also a sadistic narcissist. He will show her his true colors at some point, when his mask falls off for her too. God bless you and all of us good people who are suffering from something like this,

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Jul 17

@StrugglingSo , I wish no harm to any of God's creatures. What I will say is that karma is a bi*tch. My STBXW found this out when I got custody of the children and the house. The judge even put a restraint on her driving the children alone. All her years of drug use caught up with her. The narc in her tried to blame me for this action. All I said was that the years of drugging has finally caught up with you and that karma was a b*tch.

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Jul 17

@HurtHubby - Thank you so much. I believe in karma too. I am sorry what you went through. You are strong and will move on. She will not. God bless you and your children.

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