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Is there anyone here that knows of a marriage that was in co

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Is there anyone here that knows of a marriage that was in complete shambles and was reconciled? Everyone and their brother is trying to tell me to give up on my wife. She did file for divorce but I don't want it. I want to fight for her. I am mostly the reason that we are getting a divorce because of my depression and my lack of ability to get help with it. I was wicked to my wife for a period of time but I am now getting help and I want nothing more than to be with her. We have four kids-7, 5, and 7 month old twins and it is the most soul crushing thing that I have ever had to deal with. I need to find some support in fighting for our relationship. I know that it isn't going to happen overnight but I am determined.

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Sep 12

Hey bro, I can't add anything to GirlKitty's words on this--she's spot on. I think it hinges on getting her to go to marital counseling. I recommend a Christian counselor, but marital counseling works on a few levels--perhaps you can sell her on them. Financially--avoiding the costly divorce; as parents--all studies show how kids to better in mom & dad's home; as people--getting professional advice on coexisting, intimately with another; even as divorcee's--going through the attempt will reaffirm you did your all and will also help prepare you (both of you) for the next relationship...God speed bro.

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Sep 12

If it turns out she refuses to go to marriage counseling with her you could suggest she do it to help you better cope with the divorce and co parent better together, for the kids. If she's not even willing to do even that, then go for yourself. My divorce with my ex was my decision and I still needed counseling. If she is willing to go maybe try one of those marriage intensives before starting. Focus on the Family has some good ones.

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Sep 12

When I divorce my ex, he begged me to marriage counseling although he refused our entire marriage. So the counselor told him, because I was done with his bee ess, to spend time with our children and be the best father he can be.

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