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I would like to share my marriage with every one and I want

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I would like to share my marriage with every one and I want opinions please. I was never fully like in the beginning I landed a government job and left to another area I keep in touch my girlfriend still visited me and I thought that was good. Then she became pregnant and I had to relocate back into the city I left. The problem began The controlling of the grand kid I compromised Then # 2 came same thing but we moved away from family and that was good for awhile. Then her family started to visit use and Invite them selves over. I bit my tongue it has been her family always never mine. Then # 3 came it was good but now the dynamics are change. Her parent went through a nasty divorce which divided her brothers and sisters. Now in her family the grand parents CAN'T be together but the x wife will attend her x husband family events. So I look at my situation and I thought I had a chance to put my family back together due to all the time I spent with my kids mom and kids and I see it she needs me to help her but on the other hand she is the one pursuing sex with me. Now my kids behave better it shows and now the mil keeps doing little things to fuel the problem. I'm mad and me and my wife have a chance due to are divorce is not finalize it has been 4 years now and at the 5th year the courts can drop the case, so as of feb next year it will be 5 years and the case is Incomplete which I was told this is were I'm at and by the way my kids mom knows now her family is f#%$ up are kids and at the current moment. I can barrow 20k of my retirement and set my living situation up better or I can put her and my kids in a different area IDK because I'm not sure opinions????

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rikk's picture
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Sep 17

@Bunnygal thanks for the reply I will take a few days and think it over. she my kids mom has ask if I can go with her on a girls night out which means she going to visit a friend in are old neighbor hood to talk and have wine on Saturday. I think honestly going to the city or near it would be good to move back to??? Outside of all of that my daughters (youngest) act different when I in there presence daily and I think its good but I'm not getting older here. (lol)

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beth65's picture
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Sep 17

I find myself confused the way you talk. Also it seems the story with your wife is different every week. What does she want to do? Is she just being nice to get your money? Didn't last week she say she is uncomfortable with you spending the night? From everything you've said she is not committed to you. So if you get back together is it just for the kids? And after kids grow you then split for good? Did you add her to your health insurance? Seems she wants her cake and eat it too and she is not doing a good job with the kids. But also sounds like kids need both of you to keep an eagle eye on them. Does she have a job yet?

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beth65's picture
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Sep 17

And if you get back together does she make false charges against you again, or does she make a commitment to be your loving wife? How would you trust her? She will be able to treat you any way she wants. But maybe it is worth it for the kids.

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