I would like to ask an opinion of anyone who has been marrie

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I would like to ask an opinion of anyone who has been married over half their life like me. Me and my husband have been married for 27 years. I knew how cute he was when we married and how girls still tried to call and chase him around. He didn't acknowledge anything in front of me of course. Well a few years ago I was told by a good friend that a guy who used to work for my husband had stated that he talked about this girl that he messed with the head my second son was born. Also the year we bought our first house. Well he said they were lying of course and I believed him of course. Well last year for some reason he decided to tell me he had a fling with her but they just talked on the phone for an entire summer and worked with her for an entire summer everyday. But nothing happened of course. I am so hurt and frustrated. I really want to leave him now. Or better yet go sleep with someone like I know he did her. I know he did, he likes women to much and would not have turned her down if she kept chasing him like he said she did. I found her but she won't talk to me. He gets mad when I try to talk to him and tells me to leave if I don't believe him. On top of that right after he told me this I found out I have breast cancer. What should I do?

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16 hours ago

@CannotSeeTheWayOut
Yes I hope I get there and soon. We fight over this all the time because he tells me he's not gonna listen to me. He doesn't deserve to hear me say things to him about her. And that he had rather leave me than put up with it. I told him that was fine. I would make it through my cancer and come out a winner either way.
Thanks for your kind words

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[415]
16 hours ago

@jenjackson well we own our own business and he is my boss so no not all the time I she kind. He gets mad if I screw up on the business and says mean things to me like." If I didn't talk to your secretary and get answers we would we screwed because she is smarter than you. Course I carry all that on my shoulder and we fight a lot. He comes home and forgets what he says to me about work by the time he gets home. So not sure what to do. He has provided for me and my three kids very well. Taken good care of us. I am sorry to hear about your situation. I hope you also find peace in your reltionship also

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12 hours ago

I think I'm really in trouble now. I have made him so mad that I can ask a question that I already know the answer to, simple question and he won't tell me the truth. What is I do ?

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