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November 19th, 2020

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I should have seen it sooner after what I’ve been through.

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I should have seen it sooner after what I’ve been through. My brain was acknowledging the good while rationalizing the bad. Loving, engaged, compassionate (that threw me), loyal, generous, faith based, concerned (all good qualities). Moody at times (normal), needing space (also normal). But mix in being afraid to feel love, not answering phone calls (text instead), taking innocent words personally, and allowing things to fester adds up to another passive/aggressive unresolved issues baggage carrying person. We discussed the issues only because I insisted. He returned my key, I returned all of his belongings. He told me he would return my things. It’s been 3 days and nothing returned yet. I realize that’s control but I’d really like to get it over with. The last thing he said to me was that if I was willing to give him some time, and if I wasn’t in another relationship...that’s when I cut him off. Ummm NO! I’m jumping off the mind fukry train. It was really nice while the good times lasted, but ****, the all too familiar bad times really sucked.

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May 28

@Scat I think he’s a very confused man.

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May 28

@Scat I’m sure he has some tendencies but I don’t know if it’s realistic to except someone to have zero tendencies. At our age we’ve been through a lot and it leaves scars.

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May 28

@Fiftyyoung Yes, that is true. And I like what you said about giving a person a chance rather than just assuming they'll be like your ex. Everyone deserves to stand on their own merit rather than what someone else has done in the past.

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