I am hurt beyond words. I feel so lost, down, afraid and I f

I am hurt beyond words. I feel so lost, down, afraid and I feel defeated. No one will understand unless they have been where I'm at now. I just found out my ex husband has a baby on the way by the other woman. Why have life torn me apart like this. Why couldn't God help me to get over him first or bring me to a place where this wouldn't hurt so much. I am crying my eyes out at work. I don't feel well at all. He wasn't a good husband or dad but he was my husband and my kids dad. He has become so cold and disrespectful towards me. I have lost myself again. I feel so bad my feelings are so hurt. What did I do to deserve to feel like this. I just want to lay down & not move. Please please pray for me. I am so tired of myself.

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beth65's picture
Nov 3

@Liadee unfortunately it is easy for them to do that. It's a long and painful road.
But just hang in there. Many of us have attended DicorceCare. Last I knew some were meeting virtually. That helped me some. I also saw a hypnotherapist which helped some. And this group. And my family and friends. Hopefully you will have a healthy baby and eventually enjoy life again.


Hi@beth65 thank you, I wish it had been longer so I can get through all of this. Right now I'm starting to feel down again and I keep beating myself up about being down. How are you doing?


@Liadee I hope things are better with you. My ex having a baby by someone else bothers me for all the wrong reasons it doesn't match the reality of everything. He wasn't a good dad & he still isn't & that's not going to change. Also he wasn't a good husband & that's definitely not going to change. This is why I get so depressed & beat myself up. Why am I so depressed & hurt by someone who wasn't good to me. He's not a prize, I'm the prize but I still let his life bother me.


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