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i am having a hard time, i have no family of my own my kids

i am having a hard time, i have no family of my own my kids are grown and have their own lives, he left me with a new lease, a car he talked me into getting i could not afford, and he says he has thought about this hard and wanted to make the right decision, but he does not want me.

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[1855]
Sep 14

@Scat we had some money together so i gave him a little, he wanted 1/2 but i was not going to do that, he looked all dirty and disheveled, and to me that meant even more he was done he was willing to sleep in his car rather than come home to me, also no he did not think this through i think he wanted a break and then cause i did not beg him back i honestly dont know what he was thinking since he was almost out of money and said that he was not planning on coming home anytime soon, like the worst thing in the world would have been to come back to me. so instead i am assuming he is either staying with his brother on his couch or his mom on her couch. he did not want to tell anyone until we knew what we were doing but everything he was telling me said that he was done he was just scrambling to figure it out. i told him over and over just to tell me , just to tell me , he said he did not want to, then he said we were over. i think he did not want to say it only cause he did not yet know what to do or have a plan but he did not want to be back with me. i have not heard from him since. and it really really hurts after all those years that he would just go and i dont hear a word. i feel like maybe i pushed him into going but the only time i was seeing him was for him to pick up more clothes.

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[1855]
Sep 14

@Scat they were talking before and were friends and the talking got a lot i think they moved her to another job site and he stopped talking to her cause i did not understand it or something. then i think she came back to his job and he has been talking to her tons. actually maybe he has always been talking to her cause he never took the lock of his phone he turned off all his text notifications so i would never know if someone was texting him or not so maybe this whole time he was texting her, but having her come back to the office stepped it up and made him realize what he wanted.

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[2015]
Sep 14

@tinytearz Nope - only that he knew he was being selfish but that he needed to responsible for only himself.

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