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Here comes Mr. Complainer again: It was a tough week. I m

eddie1975's picture
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Here comes Mr. Complainer again:

It was a tough week. I managed to make it through and I'm sick of complaining but the things that keep happening really do suck.

Before I finally blocked her I got a text message that said "I'm informing you that I'm keeping our daughter and extra day in July for our vacation and in return I'll let you have one of my days in that month." So I'm left with a crappy decision. I can say NO but I don't know how that affects my daughter or I can forget it and let her bully me once again (The story of my life.)

I got a letter in the mail Friday from the court. I instigated this I know, but...... I'm being sued, or whatever, by my kid's former GAL. I owed her $2,600 after her "investigation" but I was not happy with what she did because she terrorized my children and scared them into thinking she could take them away from me and even knowing about the physical abuse from their mother STILL recommended split custody. So every month I send her a $50 check with things written on the memo line like "for the abuse and neglect of my children." I even wrote her letters twice summarizing two incidents in which one, my 12 year old daughter was physically abused by her mother and called me to come get her resulting in her moving in with me permanently, defying the court order and two, when her mother told her, a couple months later, she can never come back to her house and threw her clothes out on my lawn in a black trash bag. I explained to her that if she had made a proper recommendation and given me custody of my children these two incidents would have never happened. She says I'm harassing her and is asking the court to make me stop, and payroll deduct $100/month from my paycheck. She suggests that my actions reflect my bizarre behavior that was a factor in her initial recommendation- she's basically calling me crazy (an age old attorney trick that most competent judges don't fall for.) I asked her to see a copy of these recommendations she made but she refuses to give me a copy and says the court seals the GAL's recommendations and I have no right to see it, even though it concerns me. Oh and my own attorney is a piece of garbage so I fired him because he would't let me see the report and didn't do a **** thing I asked him to do in court from the beginning. If it's bizarre behavior to protect your children from being abused then I guess I'm super bizarre. All of these people, including my own attorney, always assume that all dads are crap. I've never as much as raised my voice to these people but they do not like opposition, especially when their bigotry is pointed out. So now I'm going to make a sign and go peacefully protest in front of her office. "Father's have rights too. This attorney does not believe that." I'm fighting, not only for my children, but for the rights of good fathers everywhere. If this woman did this to me and my children then that means she has done this before and will do it again to other families and I can't just sit back and allow that.

I also got another letter from the state bar association asking for more details because about a month ago I filed an official complaint against her (just as I told her I was going to do because of her failed investigation) so she could even be pretty pissed about that.

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eddie1975's picture
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Jun 7

@beth65 the only thing he has ever wanted is to go back to them. It’s all he’s ever talked about. And his sisters follow him. And since my ex created this mess it makes them want that even more.

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Jun 7

@eddie1975 He's almost an adult. If he ends up back at his grandpas it will be an eye opener. Eventually kids grow up and start to see the flaws of their relatives they once idealized. He'll have a wake up call.

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Jun 7

@eddie1975 what is bad for him if he is there with them?

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