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Hello I'm having a very hard time with my marriage of 33 yrs

Hello I'm having a very hard time with my marriage of 33 yrs I don't know what to do honestly .... I'm in a sexless marriage now for the past 9 yrs or more . my wife has no interest in me anymore and it's hurting so bad I feel like if I met somone tomorrow I'd leave. She won't do counseling I noticed I wasent getting spontaneous erections I we wnt to see a urologist and he said I have a slight E.D. situation and that if I don't use it I will loose it suggested some things and meds my wife said we will work on it .... Well we did for 2 weeks and it was great .... And then just stopped out of no where she doest sit next to me avoids pretty much everything .... I'm just heart broken and upset .... Can anyone give me something what am I doing wrong

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Dec 7

@Scat no she knows I'm very attcted to her I've even texted her love letters so many times .... I never get one from her ... If I get a response from a love letter I've sent to her she say love you .... That's it

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Dec 7

@2017support I can't. Do that like my doctor said ...use it or loose it ...not me oh hell no I already have a slight E.D. problem I'm not letting that happen

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Dec 19

I am sorry about your situation. However, just because someone is not having sex with you does not mean they are not attracted to you as I saw one poster mention. I do not believe that makes much sense. Can you imagine if that statement were true? You would have sex with anyone and everyone you were attracted to. I also want to point out that sex is a sticky situation. It is not the know all end all of intimacy. My father has had Lou Gehrig's disease for over 20 years. My parents are still married. There is a woman right here in town who married a quadriplegic. They were married for 33 years before he died. There is such a thing as "in sickness and in health." I saw another poster mention HER sexual issues. Perhaps she doesn't have any. Everyone has different libidos. The best way to deal with this is clear communication which requires effort.

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