Feeling so down right now. My husband and I haven’t talked

Feeling so down right now. My husband and I haven’t talked since Wednesday. I feel like he’s pulling back more and more. He had a fallout about 4 years ago and it’s been really hard for me to trust him and feel his compassion in this marriage. No cheating , just online BS he got into. We’ve been in therapy for almost 2 years and it seems like it getting worse between us. Too much fighting, resentment and I think 2 people who are just too tired to keep fighting for “what used to be “ we have 20+years and 3 children. Met when we were young, feel in love and started this whole relationship thing. Again, it was pretty good until 4 years ago and now just downhill every day. Today, after 3 days, we finally talk but it’s with our therapist. He screams at me like no other! In front of her and everything. We both are just so tired of each other, that any feeling I’m feeling, it’s a fight. He said he doesn’t want to be with me anymore because he can’t take all our arguments. I get it but I won’t be controlled and I speak up and that drives his even more to argue and scream at me. He told out therapist he didn’t want to be with me anymore. He’s said it before abs then is all over me the next day. To be honest, the past 3 days of not talking or caring what he’s been up to has been SO STRESSFREE!! Idk how were going to make it, honestly. Long vent over.

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CKBlossom's picture
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Feb 24

So where are you at? Do you also wish to divorce? Do you think the two of you can close down your marriage and be better parents and adults apart?

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