Divorced for almost 5 years after my wife cheated with my be

Divorced for almost 5 years after my wife cheated with my best friend, my only daughters best friend's dad, 23 years of marriage, 27 years together....

I met a nice women approx 4 years ago, been together since, bought a house together.....
she has one daughter almost the same age as mine, 23 and mine is 21....
My daughter is doing very well in college, her daughter dropped out 4 tears ago in her first semester...
My GF is widowed for 10 years from medical related death of her husband....

Here is the problem, there is always a constant comparison of daughters....your daughter is better than mine from her, also she doesn't understand the infidelity/divorce mindset I have to go through.... she hates my ex and despises her to the point I should never have to communicate with her, but I do for my daughter's college expenses...
I don't think I will ever marry again, I just can't see myself doing that ever again, not after the pain I went through.....
Maybe I should just be single and alone......IDK
Life sucks!

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Mar 16, 2017

So sorry for you. Get some support from family or doctor.

Mar 16, 2017

@Psussex sorry to hear that. I can only imagine what you are going through right now and what you will be going through in time . Try to stay strong as you can, seek help from your Dr,. if you feel you can't deal with it.....let me know what I can do for you by telling you my experiences ....It sucks and will suck for some time to come.....the trauma is unbearable and mentally scaring.

Mar 16, 2017

My first spouse cheated and I can relate to the anxiety and trauma it creates in you. Sending support your way. It's not easy, but know that it's not really about you, but about them so do your best to try not to blame yourself or beat yourself up. Easier said then done, but hang in there.


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