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Day 50 of no contact is drawing to an end (22:50) and I'm fe

JamieGoodrum's picture
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Day 50 of no contact is drawing to an end (22:50) and I'm feeling great. Who knew that not bothering with someone could be so good. I've seen a lot of you guys struggling away and all I can say is, and believe when I say this, it gets better 100%.

As soon as you split please go no contact. If you have kids together, still go no contact and only respond to sharing time. Dont get drawn into their little games which they will try and play. I thought no contact was completely bs but jeez I was wrong.

To put into context for the unfortunate new people here, my marriage only ended 9 months ago. I was needy, pathetic and a mess for so long. Tried no contact twice before this and failed. Third times definitely a charm it seems! Continue to post and share your story. We all care and we will all help the best we can. For anyone really struggling, my inbox is always open and I will respond as soon as I can (I work a lot and live in the UK. I know a lot of people here are US citizens). Please have the best weekend you can.

A massive shout out to everyone who has helped me to this point. There is too many of you to list but I appreciate you all ❤❤

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JamieGoodrum's picture
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Jan 17

@sbuss1023 no she hasn't which is good! I imagine shes too busy with her job, new boyfriend and paying her debts off to be worried about me. And that doesn't bother me at all :) I'm done with her and her lies

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Jan 17

@Morningview all very good points! I guess I still find myself missing the person I married not this new person. I miss that daily contact. Further, I also struggle with the fact that she was actually the one who started the no contact just a few days after she left me unexpectedly by blocking me on just about everything. Therefore, I think well what does no contact really mean for me if I couldn’t contact her anyway. Does that make sense?

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Morningview's picture
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Jan 17

@sbuss1023 Makes sense, of course you'll miss the person you were with, i had those same feelings too. When it's abrupt like that, we're only human and because we clearly had a different mindset than our ex's it's harder for our brains to compute the reality of our situations. We viewed them in a certain light and overnight that viewpoint was completely altered to a point where we can't even recognize the person sitting right in front of us. You're missing a ghost, a person that isn't real. How she's acting now...this is who she is. This is the person you're left with. It will slowly get easier.

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