Been married almost 24 yrs. Found out for the 2nd time that

Been married almost 24 yrs. Found out for the 2nd time that husband has an affair to the same girl whom he was caught with in 2003. Divorce finally happened. But Its so hard move on while putting up a STRONG front, for the kids all those who have been my side trying to cheer me up.

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Jul 22

@StrugglingSo what you said makes sense. Thank you.

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Jul 22

You are very welcome my friend.

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Jul 22

@SuziQ14 - Yes, keep busy. That's what I try to do. Your husband is probably a narcissist, like mine. Narcissists hate being ignored, so keep ignoring him. My husband claims he is NOT having an affair and some of our group of friends actually believes him. Told everyone who would listen that he can't have sex due to prostate cancer treatments, but he takes injections for this, so he can have sex like he's 19 again. He just uses friends to propagate his lie saying how can a man who can't have sex have an affair? Such a liar. He was diagnosed in late 2015, and I took care of him through many trying times. He was involved with his co-worker even then, but they used me as his nurse until he got better, although the cancer spread and could return. They plotted and schemed for a year, but the narcissist still wants our mutual friends to like him, listen to him, not ignore him, and believe his lies. You are smart. He is not worth your time. I hate these weekends too. They are the hardest. Kind of sad to have to admit that...Here's a BIG HUG for you and your boys. Stay strong, and God bless.

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