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After three years i get a email from a lawyer , thought to m

After three years i get a email from a lawyer , thought to myself well she is finally going to progress the divorce that she so badly wanted . Wrong again , between her lawyer and herself she is again pushing the angle that our daughter needs counselling all because our daughter wants nothing to do with her , this is the second time she has pushed this narrative and it is getting old quick .
The stbxw seems to have forgot the constant mental and verbal abuse that she put our daughter through on a constant bases leading to our daughter to make the decision to remain with me .
In this three year span the stbxw has spent no more than ten hours with our daughter and since last April has not seen our daughter for more than two minutes , in this three years she has no problem pointing out that in the court order that we have shared custody , but when it comes to covering the cost for our daughter she is quick to point out that we don't have a separation agreement and so she does not feel any need to pay anything and to this point hasn't . Don't know if she seems to think i don't document conversations or retain the text messages and emails but she is sadly mistaken . Have gone through our daughters text log on her phone ( with her permission ) and in well over one thousand days since she packed up and moved out of our house and into his she has made a attempt to do something with our daughter no more than 17 times , and somehow she has her lawyer convinced that it is our daughter that needs the therapy .
At a loss for understanding how a parent can justify treating anyone like this let alone her own daughter .

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Feb 17

@lostsngdad Gosh no. We married in our 60's. I'm 66. This is a short term marriage. We were married three years when he abandon me. I do have two children from my first marriage and a grandson. Last night I reviewed things again and saw that he had been taking money from one of our checking accounts and was moving it down state. I was good with everything until I saw this. Now I'm seeing a lawyer Wed. I just want someone to tell me what my options are and what is the best course for my outcome. I don't think a lawyer is going to tell me that though, although they should be able to. But they won't because they want to suck you in.

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Feb 17

@mmadwaite Oh the lawyers are good at helping you spend the money but don't let the future ex get away with hiding the assets , like you said this is not your first go round with a lawyer you have the expertise not to ask a lawyer , tell him what's what , you know this ....

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mmadwaite's picture
[39990]
Feb 17

@lostsngdad Thank you; I will.

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