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I'm really really upset right now. How is that yet again I'm

I'm really really upset right now. How is that yet again I'm in the grips of a man who is willing to paint me as the bad guy? I sacrifice and give my all. I do everything in my power to fight for us. I do everything I can so it won't end ugly. Yet, here he is painting this picture of me to the world as if I'm some immature and selfish person. My ex did the same and my reputation was torn apart. How do narcissists pull this off?! They decieve the world that they are the victim and seem to get away with the turmoil they cause in their victims life. I'm broken that I find myself here once again. So frustrating!

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[365]
Jun 12

@Hurt54 i have tried keeping record but my notes or videos always go "missing". This has been going in for years. It is scary how good at what he does. Even being well aware of his tactics I'm still left scratching my head questioning if its all me. Am I over dramatic? Am I overly sensitive? Is my perception of his intentions wrong? Without a reminder of how consistent his abuse has been its easy to be pulled back under his illusion and he knows this..

Ill keep being me but in court I honestly don't believe I stand a chance.

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[365]
Jun 12

@GirlKitty I hope so. I'm so done with all his drama.

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Jun 12

This happens because we worked so hard trying to keep things from exploding. While you bust your hump protecting the front, he's productively destroying your back! I know because I lived it, too. I got to the point that I stopped protecting, stopped pretending and I definitely stopped smoothing things over and playing referee. I let it rip. It worked in my favor because he really showed his hind end to the world. Their drama is so sickening. They are big fakes! You're so much better without it. Enjoy the peace.

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