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Stbx started getting on dating sites again. I knew he would.

Kyleah's picture
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Stbx started getting on dating sites again. I knew he would. But, the stupid idiot doesn't realize that this entire time I've had a dating profile that I occasionally check to see if he is back on. So, this morning as I was getting dressed I told him that as long as he is on dating sites he does not get to sleep in our bed. He admitted he was on it. He said he just signed up to see if I was checking his phone and computer again. His phone and computer are locked now and password protected, so I couldn't even if I wanted to. So, I let him know that I don't believe him. Man, he can't just wait a few months for this thing to be finalized. And, to have the gall to sleep in our bed! I guess I shouldn't be surprised. He slept with many women over 6 years and still came home to our bed. I really should just kick him to the basement, but I don't want to impact the kids. Should be a fun conversation when I get home tonight. Just shaking my head at what an idiot he is. I don't feel hurt emotionally because I'm over him, and knew he'd go back to his pathetic lifestyle. But, I'm not going to put up with that while he's living in my house.

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Kyleah's picture
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Jun 26

@Annep2018 I anticipate he will have shallow relationships for the rest of his life. But, he seems fine with that. He is the one that says "I'll never get married again." And, maybe that is best for him. Maybe that is what will make him happy. He can go camping whenever he wants, have the kids every other week, and sleep with some random woman that he feels "better" than a couple times a month. He'll probably borrow against his retirement to buy a house and then have to work until he is 70. I'll go forth and form strong bonds with friends and family, keep doing good works, and travel the world (hopefully). And, I'll retire with a healthy pension and live the good life sipping wine and finding somewhere to dip my toes in the water. I'll spend time with my girls and their families if they have them. We'll remain close and we'll invite their Dad to things so he isn't left out, but I don't see them being close as they move into adulthood. That shallowness will ultimately impact their relationships with their father, too. They'll feel sorry for him. The future seems as clear as day to me right now. And, I'm feeling A-OK about it.

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beth65's picture
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Jun 27

@Kyleah I agree with you. You seem to have a good understanding of what you're going through

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beth65's picture
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Jun 27

@Kyleah I love your life plan.

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