Sonce yesterday I have started working on my self and being

Sonce yesterday I have started working on my self and being the type of man and husband I want to be. I feel better and like even if my wife does go through with divorcing me I will be a better man because of this. Maybe she will even see the changes and fall back in love with me. But only time will tell.

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May 19


I agree, unless the cheater seeks change and healing, after the fully admit what they have done, they will only become rotten inside from their guilt and selfishness.

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May 19

@Bee4bdn Absolutely - there may still be hope but therapy and more importantly RESTORATION of TRUST and even more important than that is fixing the underlying problem that caused the affair but and it is a big BUT . . . it takes two to make a thing go right.

May 19

This last marriage and divorce was insanely hard for me. But I am a totally different and better person now.

I was thinking the other day being rid of him, dispite all the drama he put me through, really was a blessing. Even if he did not cheat, he was never good enough for me, and the person I am now I like.


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