I have been on this site just over 2 years now. I just want

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I have been on this site just over 2 years now. I just wanted to let everyone know about something that has helped me recently and would have been a great help if I had read it right after DDay. Here is one of my recent posts last month that I gave for my update, if you want to read my story. https://www.supportgroups.com/divorce-infidelity/today-would-have-been-21-years-of-marriage-for-me (just copy and paste into the browser). Anyway, the book I'm reading now is "Leave a cheater, Gain a Life". It has been so amazing. It is like reading the playbook for my now ex and all the ways she manipulated me during the 18 months after DDay while we were supposed to be working on the marriage. Do yourself a favor!! READ THIS BOOK!!! Her website is www.chumplady.com Even though it is too late for me this book has helped me understand that I wasn't crazy and MOST importantly....THIS WAS NOT MY FAULT!!!! This book doesn't push you into divorce, but it gives you so much information to know if you are really being played again! I'm not affiliated with her, I don't get a cut of the profits! LOL But seriously do yourself a favor...buy this book. I got mine at Barnes and Knobles, and it is available for the kindle too.

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[2705]
Aug 15

@StrugglingSo hopefully the other woman will see his true colors

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[1325]
Aug 15

@1day - I think he's going to try to keep it together with her for as long as possible, as I'm sure he's told her just how awful I was to him (untrue, of course), but should they be together for any length of time, he'll show his true colors... If not to her, we'd better pray for the other employees who report to him... Someone's going to catch hell!!

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[2705]
Aug 15

This relationship wont last ...built on lies.

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