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Now that you're separated, Do you have the tendency to let r

Now that you're separated, Do you have the tendency to let responsibilities and chores slide? For example, I used to make the bed and tidy up around the house daily... I never had to think of the reason why I was doing it, I just did...Now that I'm alone, I don't feel the importance of it all...I mean why make the bed if I'm gone all day and the fact that it's gonna get undone at night anyways...So I'm wondering, Do we do this out of respect for the other person living with us? I'm far from being lazy or a plain slob, but if a woman were to invite herself over in an hour, I'd have to sadly refuse lol...So that gets me thinking that maybe I actually do it in fear of what others may think of me...Is this normal? Yes, I'm also guilty of leaving clothes on top of the dryer without folding them...Pop the clothes I'm gonna wear in the morning in the dryer for 5 minutes, and magically all the wrinkled lazy evidence has been erased...Is this a man thing, because it seems women are more responsible regarding these little things...So if any one of of you has the idea to stop by unnoticed, I may just have to hide without answering the door peeping through the drapes out of shame watching as you head back to your vehicle lol...So a weeks notice would be sufficient please.

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PatMill's picture
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Jul 13

@Ellen4550 Yes exactly, but name calling isn't permitted here. If it was, I'd have a lot more nasty things to say about you. Even though you may not agree, but somewhere way way deep inside you rests a kindness just aching to be released. Let it go Ellen :)

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Ellen4550's picture
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Jul 13

@PatMill Actually , I think kindness is an attribute that I would agree that I display...I enjoy being kind to others, of course at work I HAVE to be kind to patients even when not warranted, but sometimes killing them with kindness is funner

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PatMill's picture
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Jul 13

@Ellen4550 Tidy, extra kind in wanting to kill people. Why are you single again?

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