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Hey guys! So I went on a date last night and it was super w

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Hey guys! So I went on a date last night and it was super weird. It didn’t feel right and left me in a weird mood for several hours later. It was good I guess because I realized I’m a far way from dating and just need to be single. I was wondering if anyone else after divorce and infidelity felt this way? I just didn’t get a good feeling from this girl. I got a very dark feeling. Has anyone felt this way after suffering narcissistic abuse?

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brentleely's picture
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Feb 16

@Blueberries1234 thank you for sharing your experiences. This is very helpful. I feel the same way about keeping it casual for a while. That’s my new goal for any relationship. My ex-wife and I went so fast, especially because she love bombed me and I stupidly took it as I had found my “soul mate”. So I want to be way more cautious and pick very carefully.

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Feb 16

@Whatstheuseanymore ...I'm afraid I will never love again and that if I do, he will not be a good guy.

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Feb 16

@brentleely Yea, I think it's just so important to go really really slow. To be kind, giving, and really observe who the person is around friends and family. See where you fit in and how they treat you, how they handle "No" and how they show empathy. Really, how do they show empathy? Do they copy you?

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