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doing better, but would just like to have sex again at some

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doing better, but would just like to have sex again at some point in my life. Divorce takes for ever!

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lntx's picture
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Feb 13

@Foundlove I realized I have the same tendency, usually with people I get enamored with but don't know very well... I sort of idealize the person and tend to obsess. It's never good. And with some of these people I also developed limerence over... Until I find someone else to take their place (in my mind at least). I figure this has sth to do with having a NARC as a father... At least now Im more aware of the situation and my feelings and have stopped acting on impulse... I don't want to ignore red flags ever again... As well as I don't want to scare people off or create expectations that will only frustrate me.

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Feb 13

@lntx haha I have to leave comment beyond thread is now closed... so I’m completely idealizing this potential thing bw this guy n realizing it but I’m terrified of meeting other guys and this is where I’m at... I feel like at least with this guy I’m comfortable to explain all my issues without being judged or tortured whereas if i met another guy there’s no safety in fact that idk his personality... so I confided in this guy bc I know he’s also going through divorce n I thought we can hurt together but now I’m realizing... we might be on completely separate page of how we’re dealing n maybe... was he cheating in his marriage? Idk what’s in his head n maybe he is judging me!! I’m finding it very difficult to move on from this divorce in my life... idk how to let people back in again, I’d rather be alone than meet another dramatic narc

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lntx's picture
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7 hours ago

@Foundlove Why don't you "support me" so we can chat more about this lol

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