nothing is ever gonna go right i swear it we finally fix my

nothing is ever gonna go right i swear it we finally fix my strut for my car yay then i start to replace the master cylinder and my brake line snaps i only have 2 dollars to my name and i cant replace it not to mention i lost my job because some girl decided to come to my house and hit me god im never gonna get a break for reals though

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May 16

The laws of nature are the same for everyone, if your life isn't going in the way you want it to go, you might be applying the laws of nature in the wrong manner, and could use some fine tuning in your strategies. I don't want to dive into your wallet, but if you ever have 16 dollars left invest in getting this book.

The Millionaire Fastlane: Crack the Code to Wealth and Live Rich for a Lifetime

https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_2?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=millionaire+fastlane

This book literary turns your life around from poverty to wealth. It gives a fundamental understanding of money, life and makes you think in ways you never thought before.

I feel sorry for your current situation though, i've been looking at some of your other posts and it seems you had a lot of bad things happening to you, and they have created open wounds that have not been healed at all.

For instance when your husband shot himself, I feel like you incorrectly took the blame for this. There are many aspects in this world that are not directly under your control, your husband might have been walking around with depression himself that he should have gotten treatment for, aspects that made him depressed that lie outside of your control and beyond your fault. For that reason you are not worthless, because you did the right thing as a wife, namely loving him and supporting him, and you would never wanted him to feel worthless or depressed himself. So no, you are worthy of him, you need to be more careful. People often incorrectly put labels on others or themselves, loser, stupid, worthless, winner, smart, beautiful. Don't do that! You are only worthless if you 'allow' yourself or other people to put this label on you. You must understand that you are more than a label, and should not allow yourself or others to define yourself in a way that is disadvantageous for your own cause. You should be like a trashman and dump all negative people/things/events out of your life and only bring in positive people/things/events into your life.

You are not Atlas, you don't have to carry the weight of the entire world on your shoulders, instead you should acknowledge the effects that these negative experiences had on you, and you should understand that the wounds you suffered need healing. It is possible to love again.

I think it's unhealthy that you are still hanging around with your ex. Because you are hurting and are in false hopes of things going ok again. I think you should move on , find someone who complements your life, and focus on improving your life every day. The book i suggested is a fine start to learn what is really important and a first stepping stone on improving your life and that starts with yourself, with taking focus and action on going in a right direction in your life, and acquiring the knowledge and getting the tools necessary to get there.

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May 16

@nafta oh and get help, a psychiatrist, or grieving counselor would be great in order for you to overcome what has happened in the past.

The Depression Cure: The 6-Step Program to Beat Depression without Drugs

https://www.amazon.com/Depression-Cure-6-Step-Program-without/dp/0738213888/ref=sr_1_5?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1526516829&sr=1-5&keywords=depression

The Upward Spiral: Using Neuroscience to Reverse the Course of Depression, One Small Change at a Time

https://www.amazon.com/Upward-Spiral-Neuroscience-Reverse-Depression/dp/1626251207/ref=sr_1_6?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1526516829&sr=1-6&keywords=depression

Healing the Hurt Spirit: Daily Affirmations for People Who Have Lost a Loved One to Suicide

https://www.amazon.com/Healing-Hurt-Spirit-Affirmations-Suicide/dp/0977824403/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1526516869&sr=1-4&keywords=suicide+loved+one

It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand

https://www.amazon.com/Its-That-Youre-Not-Understand/dp/1622039076/ref=sr_1_11?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1526516869&sr=1-11&keywords=suicide+loved+one

Here are some books on healing.

And some job seeking websites.

www.trovit.com
www.indeed.com
www.monsterboard.com

Hold on, even though it's hard. Get help and stay in this support group forum for further help.

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