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I just feel like there is something fundamentally wrong with

I just feel like there is something fundamentally wrong with me. It seems like I can't understand or see anything on my own. People are often mean to me and I won't even know, I've been severely manipulated and still I never even know. I just feel like maybe I'm just stupid and that makes me really upset. I get worried that I will never be able to fix these things and offer my own insight to my loved ones. That though just makes me feel like I'm not worthy to be a part of anyone's life. I often feel like I should just move away and become a recluse that way I'm not a burden to anyone's life anymore. Other times I feel like life just isn't worth living if I'm this stupid. I don't know what to do I feel so hopeless and like I am incapable of change.

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lilynameless's picture
[3005]
Dec 2

Being manipulated is in no way you're fault. Selfish people will always be selfish. If you have any droughts, come here, and we will fight together.
stupid, is a widly used word, although it is a gross generalization. Do not see yourself as such, for that word has no boundaries.
I have felt stupid my entire life, and everyone has only ever told me that I am, worth less and should just give up. I believed that I was stupid, but didn't give up.
Now, I have been diagnosed, and know I am in no way less than anyone else.
Nor are you in anyway inferior.
I wish you the best.

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[950]
Dec 3

Hi there, I'm so sorry you've been hurt by those around you. Please don't feel stupid. To have a trusting nature isn't a matter of intelligence or not, it's just part of who you are, and a lovely part at that.
This aspect of your personality that makes you tend not to notice negative treatment is the same aspect that makes you a calm and relaxing person to be around. Skeptics who may detect manipulation also can tend to over-analyze friends/situations that are actually harmless.
God created each of us with unique traits and abilities, ways of viewing the world. And the way that you operate is necessary and valuable.

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[4120]
Dec 3

You are not stupid. To be trusting is a wonderful quality and shows your innocence and goodness. God created with love and purpose. You are not responsible for the actions and choices of others. I will be praying for you that God reveal is plan for you. There are some good resources here ( https://bit.ly/383AemT ) that might give you some insights for positive change. Hugs.

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