There is something troubling my head these past few days. I'

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There is something troubling my head these past few days. I've found myself really attracted to this girl in the last few weeks, I think that her and I would be very compatible and I sort of got the feeling that she liked me before too. I could have sworn that I overheard her tell someone that she has been trying to get me to go out with her(although she really hasn't), but I am not completely certain that is what she had said. She invited me to an event that did not end up taking place, but right after she did so, I asked her to hang out. It seems like there is always something in the way when I try to hang out with her, for instance, one day when we were supposed to hang out she cancelled because she had a late night the day before on the 4th of July. Sometimes when I try to text message her, it supposedly does not go through because she is unable to get phone service where she is at every so often. It makes me feel like absolute crap when I try to initiate a hang out session and something gets in the way. In the back of my head I tell myself "Maybe she is just not interested." I've had this problem with girls in the past, I get my hopes up in thinking that we will form some kind of special bond, and then everything comes crumbling down. I just want to know the right move to make. The last thing that I tried was telling a friend of hers to tell her that I like her and asking if she could set something up between us. What is the best thing that I should do to try and avoid facing rejection again?

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JoeM's picture
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Jul 18

@mhorne I did that. She just got back with her ex apparently. She said that we could hang out still but I want more out of this. If it doesn't happen then I will just give up on everything and move forward. Thank you for responding!

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Jul 18

@Caitlin2121 I did ask her that. She told me that she just got back with her ex...my f*cking luck! She said that we could hang out still but I want to make my way into her heart possibly. Thanks for responding!

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JoeM's picture
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Jul 18

@seafoam I do fear getting rejected sometimes. Every time that I tell myself that a girl is gonna say "No" to me what ends ups happening Is they tell me that they are not ready for a relationship or that they are already romantically involved with another guy, which sucks, but it is something that I have to live with.

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