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Hearing her be jolly and nearly thankful for cutting all my

PeppermintSunrise's picture
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Hearing her be jolly and nearly thankful for cutting all my hair off makes me want to spit on her and cuss her out. "It didnt do well for your mind but it worked out for your hair" WHAT?... I truly think shes borderline crazy on the head.. she forcefully cut it all off and with a smile on her face shes thanking herself for basically cutting it off. Admits she know it hurt me mentally with a smile her face but is more infatuated with how ot looks now. All she had to do was let it grow out. She didnt have to cut it the way she did without my permission on a school night. To you it's in the past, but have u had your mom cut off all your hair just to make up a logical reason years layer? Seeing her pride herself over hurting me in plain sight really hurts even more honestly. Not as much, I take that back. But it makes me sick to my stomach knowing she'll hurt me and smile. To make it worse she talks about knowing it hurt me as if I told her. That night I was shaking a crying because I was do traumatized and she was angry when she did it.. I feel so disgusted I could really punch a wall in. I'm giving her the cold shoulder from here on out. And no she didnt cut my hair because she thought it was best. Stop defending bad parenting unless you want to look just as bad.

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Jan 17

@Karinah I think that's the issue I'm truly fighting the most; I've taken on her shame and guilt and errors because it's what I've grown up in. So in a way, I've started to see her awful ways as my only support system after always being so close and isolated with her if that makes sense. So I'm learning to cut myself out of that chain because I realize she has replaced my common thinking and hope for a better life with her mess and abusive stuff. I guess it was too much for her to even handle so she wanted to give it to me

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Jan 17

Those Narc Mothers love to see us hurting. You have to wonder what THEY went through in THEIR childhood that makes them want to hurt their own daughters.

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Jan 17

My mom cut my hear when I was a kid for sneaking out of the house. She watched the movie Mommy dearest and apparently she got that idea from that. It was awful. After being abused as a child and now getting out of a marriage with a narcissist I stopped talking to my mom as well. She caused issues before he left and didn't care how I felt. She actually told me not to blame her for my f'd up life. I always forgave everyone. Saw the good in everyone. This experience has made me realize that I need to get toxic people out of my life.

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