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I'm realizing that some things aren't meant for everyone. So

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I'm realizing that some things aren't meant for everyone. Some people aren't meant to have a special someone in their lives. Some of us are meant to be alone. Maybe things would go smoother if I just accepted that it may very well be my fate. All relationships I've had have been unhealthy to some extent and this last one ended with me being spoken to in the most disrespectful way. I honestly didn't ever think it would go that way, but it did. 5 years gone. It makes me sad thinking that the life that could and should have been can't be. I should focus on other things I'm sure but I see other people with their person and I can't help but feel sad. And I mean its everywhere. Magazines, television, in real life. All I see is couples and I think of all I'm not getting to do. I used to take myself out on dates, a silly concept to some, but it taught me that I could enjoy my own company. I did that when I was younger and now that I am older I truly want companionship, respect and love. I want my person but I don't think I will ever have one. Maybe a soulmate just isn't in the cards for me....

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JM1320's picture
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Oct 20

@STANLEY065 Thank you

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Oct 20

@Idontgettochoose I don't think people realize how much pain a person can be in and how sometimes it isn't just as simple as "having a hard time". When that depression or loneliness takes over it feels like you're suffocating. It's a slow and agonizing process. And having to constantly fight for a tiny bit of happiness is exhausting.

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8 hours ago

...having to constantly make myself “do” something/anything... to take responsibility for my mental health... to keep ANY hope alive... that things might change/get better... could change/get better... ...sometimes feels like it feeds the depression.

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