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I barely slept at all and woke up exhausted. Is it wrong to

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I barely slept at all and woke up exhausted. Is it wrong to feel betrayed by my friend using the situation to bully me? I feel really down today after realizing everytime I try to stand up for myself, they get angry at me and try to guilt me into doing what they want. Not once ever asking, always telling me what I'm going to do and when. I haven't been around this type of behavior since my dad was alive...I didn't realize it was such a trigger for me. I told them that, and they didn't care at all. I guess that have no understanding of how these things work. If someone cares about you, shouldn't they feel bad for making you feel so uncomfortable? Instead of angry and try to make you feel guilty for standing up for your feelings?

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Feb 27

@Mosaic It runs, it just needs some work, so I was planing on storing it at a storage place just up the road from me while I save up for the repairs. They decided to take my truck to their house instead. Without asking me.

I have AAA, they took care of the tow for free, but it is MY insurance. Everything is in my name and I do have the title and registration(with my name on it) in hand. I always keep that stuff with me, not in the truck. I know I own it, they don't seem to care that I do.

Lord help me, I really hope it doesn't escalate to such a legal level. They definitely better not be driving it. Especially since they have their own vehicle and know mine needs alot of work. They sure don't seem to care what I want. I stood my ground and explained how my trauma past is NOT something to just dismiss as an exaggeration, "nothing important", or something "I should be ashamed of because all of it was my fault". I haven't anything since. I suppose that just goes to show that the people who announce themselves as "caring and kind", probably aren't actually at heart.

Thank you. My tax refund is coming in about 2 weeks, I'm going to have it towed back then. Stored behind a locked gate, where they can't get to it, and will have no control over it.

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Feb 27

I have been reading your post, and it is so touching. I wish my mother had the strength that you had. I am like your daughter. You are such a role-model. Your daughter will learn strength from you.

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Feb 28

@wantingawakening That is very sweet of you to say. I hope so. My mother was the opposite of strong, but my gramma was one tough cookie you did not want to cross. Lol. I learned strength from her and my dad. I hope it passes to my daughter. She's been saying lately, "Momma, I'm not a princess. I'm your little warrior!". It makes me very proud to hear. :) She knows that she'll always come first in my life, I think that's important for children to feel in order to learn that they are important, and do matter. Atleast to momma anyway. :)

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