Only 2pm and I have already spent most of my day in tears. S

DaraMayl's picture

Only 2pm and I have already spent most of my day in tears. Si angry, heartbroken, and terrified. Telling myself over and over that his "love" wasn't real, just the mask he wore. I hate him so much, for what he did to me. Hate myself more for still loving him even a little.

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Mar 15

Hang in there! You are making some insightful observations about yourself and people have given some wise advice. Changing our typical responses that have caused us pain in the past takes wise advice, guidance and practice. Leslie Vernick;s book "Lord, I Just Want to Be Happy", along with come of her other books about emotionally destructive relationships helped me to start to make changes. You might want to check it out. Hope this helps! Again, you seem to be moving toward change and toward healing. Blessings to you today!

Mar 15

Hugs and kisses sweety. You have loved, you need to mourn.

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Mar 15

Richard Grannon has s saying "what you resist will persist!!" So it is ok to have emotions, to cry, weep, feel sorrow for what you thought you had with this person. However, dont remain there too long, you have a meaningful life to live. Realize that some peopel are only in our lives for a season, and to quote Madea, "where we get messed up is having lifetime expectations from seasonal people." Not everyone in your life is meant to be there for the length of your life, they are here for a season and some not even that long. Find the positives in that which brings you sadness so that you can grow as a person.


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