This week's Topic: Giving yourself permission to be imperfect!!!

Have ideas for a new Blog, let us know!

https://www.supportgroups.com/blog/giving-yourself-permission-to-be-impe...

ARE YOU FOLLOWING US ON IG, PLEASE DO!!!
instagram.com/supportgroupsforeveryone

I always hope ppl arent mad at me

PeppermintSunrise's picture
[16690]

I always hope ppl arent mad at me

Comment
 3
CKBlossom's picture
[477085]
Jul 31

Why do you feel they are mad at you?

Reply
PeppermintSunrise's picture
[16690]
Aug 1

I truly don't know, I always feel like I'm this huge bother to others. I complain about things too much or I'm a burden of some sort. Then I'm alone hoping that all this isnt true, that no one hates me. But it feels.like it all the time. Makes grieving a lot harder. I see others talk to their friends and out with their lovers and I get overwhelmed knowing they have someone and I dont. It's like the world is upset with me idk.

Reply
Blueberries1234's picture
[59555]
Aug 1

I use to be like this. It feels like such a distant dream now. I think it's because 1.I focused on my finances 2.I went on dating apps and rejected a million people and realized Im awesome 3.I worked n my self esteem by realizing all my low self esteem was because of other people telling me I had flaws, compqring me to other people, and judging me. I realized that when we judge anykne, it's because we are insecure about that exact thing. Confident people don't judge others. Period. Then I realized all of society is full of people with low self esteem chasing money and sex, and that I alsohad foumd my self esteem by how desireable I was according to someone else's judgement. I learned how much other people have hurt me. I learned how much I ADORE my own company. How much I am pretty much the coolest person I know. And that I dont have to be responsivle for other people's judgememt of me. But most of all I focused on making myself intk rhe person I respect and unconditionally accept. I still think Im fat on some days but besides that I know Im probably rhe most wonderful person I know, on the inside. So yea! I hope that helps. It's a journey. You're at the beginning. I recommend ekhart tolle. Learning to see yourself as a whole person, just just a body part for someone else to enjoy or not just a giving person other people benefit from. But alas we must all learn from pain before we realize we are ready to learn from love. Also look up cognitive behavior therapy worksheets and try them out.

show more ⇓
Reply

Login or Register

You are visiting Support Groups as an anonymous user.

Please consider joining our community and gain access to additional features by

registering or logging into your account