How did you bring up the subject of leaving to your signific

How did you bring up the subject of leaving to your significant other?

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[12685]
Feb 12

If the house is yours, I suggest you try to get a lawyer, or if you can't afford one, go to a legal aid agency that is free or sliding scale. You may find out a judge can make him leave. My narc is always doing that too. He refuses to leave. Kids make it harder. I know how it is. But courts would give you, the mother custody.

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[180]
Feb 12

How do you know the mother would get custody? I have always stayed because I figure the courts would give him 50/50 custody. But I am slowly losing my mind.

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[12685]
Feb 12

@mariab44, if you're not sure, you could always ask a family lawyer. My experience, in CA, where I live, mother always gets custody of smaller children unless she's a train wreck (drug addict, criminal, violent, etc.) That could be changing now that men have been fighting that.

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