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I’m 22 years old Male in shape gorgeous girlfriend happy at times... and just need a lot of help mentally.. From Drugs, Mental abuse, Paranoia, the list goes on I’d really like to talk to someone who cares about the situation.. No family.. Wonderful soon to be wife and she has a great family. I do believe in god and feel I let him down a lot. I feels no one really sees how bad I hurt every night

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Feb 28

Wow, it’s very hard to not have connection to anyone in your family. But, you are a man now, and your need forge a new life is a healthy goal. After living with self absorbed people my guess is that you should learn how to make yourself happy. This is what you are trying to do with your use of drugs and love. But, do you know what really will make you happy? Knowing yourself as a person, knowing your true self, is not easy with ppl who are hostile. I am 63’ and I am determined to overcome my life too. I need to find my true self, because at my age I have still have a lot of work. So, I urge you to find a therapist. My husband just saw a psychiatrist who gave him a psychological test that will show us what his personality issues are. You have trauma from your childhood. The pain from your trauma is what drives you to find change by using substances. You may have undiagnosed issues that make surviving in the world harder than what other people face. My H was just diagnosed with ADD. I spent 35 years being miserable because his problem wasn’ T treated. My point is that half your battle is to understand all the reasons why you are so unhappy. Get a complete physical and psychological exam. Know what you are really dealing with. Some of us can’t do that until half their lives are wasted in depression, anxiety or worse. If your drs suggest medication, I hope that you don’t fight the idea. My son refused to take prescribed medication and used illegal substances instead.. I don’ Understand that reasoning, but at 30 he is desperate to be medicated for ADD, depression and anxiety. He finally realizes that hiding from the idea of his needing help is blocking him from succeeding in life. At 30 he finds himself in a position of a 22 year old. Let’s not let you follow the same course. Take your first start to happiness but identifying what keeps you from being happy. Your mother’s passing, your father’s materialism, the general miscontent in your family are the obvious reason’s for your state. Make sure nothing is hiding from your surface that may be at the root of troubles. Embrace your idea of changing your life, and be courageous enough to do real things to fix yourself. We can’t do this by ourselves. We all need the wisdom from many people to take the journey that you are about to embark. When you look in the mirror, see the strong happy man that you want to be looking back. Remind yourself that you can be that guy if you follow the advise from nafta. It is sound advice. He knows what he’s talking about. Take my advice. It is what I tell my son, who I love with all of my heart,- alcoholism, mental illness and all the warts.too. This is a message from a loving mother to you.

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Unstable's picture
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Mar 8

What's up

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Unstable's picture
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Mar 8

Some who has never had a addiction won't understand how it works

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