I am at my wits end for sure. Come to Florida to help my mo

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I am at my wits end for sure. Come to Florida to help my mother her saying she is having Open Heart surgery and might die come to find out she is not having this done lied to me to get me down here. She has been verbally abusing me the whole time I have been here. Today Dad needed help taking down the roof on there sunroom and he was going to do it alone of course I felt bad and got up there with him cut my hands up badly and pulled my back out like I have never done before. Got in the hot tub it made the pain worse and now doing a heating pad with no relief from the pain. Took a muscle relaxer not doing anything yet. I did not sign up for all this ****. I am so freaking tired of my family using me I am 52 and disabled not some teenager in good health having a melt down. UGH

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Jennipain's picture
[472605]
Jan 31

Trying to hang in there I made a promise to be here to help with parents and even my brother told me to stay with him but I am going to do this but don't think I will come down again they use me to do chores and things I can't do and I am not here for that and to sick to do it. Back is awful but my father thinks I am getting back up on the roof again tomorrow don't think that will happen I am 52 not a young chicken to do this ****.

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[255]
Feb 1

That's horrific, I am so sorry your family is using you like that and that you've hurt yourself further. I hope some of the pain eases soon and you feel better x

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[255]
Feb 3

I'm sorry you are in such pain and have cut your hands all up. Please take care of yourself as best you can. It's so hurtful to be lied to and used by anyone, much less our own family we believed really needed us. I'm praying you'll be feeling better soon and able to go back home and take care of yourself. Sometimes we have to let our loved one's know we love them, however, we won't be lied to and used by them, even to the extent we harm ourselves in the process. I'll be praying for you and your family dynamic. Hugs and prayers from Texas

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