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TRIGGER WARNING: today i wanted to cut so bad. i thought i w

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TRIGGER WARNING: today i wanted to cut so bad. i thought i was going to do it just to feel something. i texted my crisis line and they talked me through and i felt better and didn't want to cut anymore but i still feel empty, rejected, and inadequate to my fiance. i don't what to do anymore. he doesn't want me to look at trucks with him anymore. he would rather me stay home or be somewhere else when he's looking at trucks. it really hurts to feel like this. i started to cry last night because of it. i mean he gets to go with his dad and get his dad's opinion of it but not mine. i don't know what to do. can someone explain to me where im going wrong?

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[104790]
Nov 7

It sounds like from what you describe, you feel hurt about the fact your fiance seems to prefer his father's opinion about trucks to yours. Or maybe you don't like the fact he doesn't want your opinion. Or is it that you feel he doesn't want your company? I do understand why you'd feel hurt about this. If my fiance didn't want my input about such a large purchase (is he buying a truck?) I think I'd probably question whether he respected my judgement, or would want to share the big stuff with me, once we were married. Did he say why he didn't want you there? I mean, could it be that it has nothing to do with you and more to do with the fact he respects his father's judgement because he's older. That could be problematic too though. It's good to respect one's parents opinions and advice once you're grown so long as one isn't overly dependent on their parents. Are you afraid he's overly dependent on his dad?

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Nov 8

@Scat I'm afraid that his dad will tell him to leave me.

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[104790]
Nov 9

@Annabear, do you think his father doesn't like you? Does his dad have that much control or sway over his life decisions? : (

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