I just wanna know if anybody can help me with something I’

I just wanna know if anybody can help me with something I’m thinking about. so I think about how my brother molested me he really hurt me however now he is a registered nurse practitioner making excellent money and doing well ,my sister mentally abused me she’s also is doing well making money happy with her kids grandkids and then I have other family who is doing well making money after abuse to me .how come people that hurt you really bad destroy who you are they are always blessed and doing well? I know I shouldn’t think about those things I know it’s wrong but it bothers me and I don’t want it to bother me . I’ve struggled my whole life with working two jobs being poor I’ve struggled always and have Great Depression too my whole life and with family members that have ostracized me and push me out of their life . now I have my children who are grown I am blessed that I’m actually talking to them very little on the phone, but they’re not really in my life . I was watching the show on Netflix called dirty John and Betty a it was about a woman who was divorced and he treated her like garbage ( in the 2 season) the things that she went through I have to say I didn’t go down the same road she did at the end but I totally was able to relate how she became unraveled that was me kinda of because sometimes you go through these traumatic experiences and they kill who you are and then you try to like your self and a voice kicks in and kind of contradict who you are and no matter what cause of your past trauma You think am I good person you say to yourself why didn’t they love me ?or why didn’t this person love me ?I don’t know I’m just venting. I know a lot of people on here are very intelligent and they always give excellent advice I was just wondering about this. I don’t wanna live my life hating the fact that all the people that abuse me are doing well in life I want peace idon’t want to have that feeling at all.

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andine's picture
Jun 15

It may not be apparent now but I am sure they are suffering. The truth seems to eventually come out. Abusers are not capable of loving anyone including themselves and they are incapable of having honest long lasting relationships. They may have money and power but inside they are rotting because deep down they know the truth about themselves. :(

Jun 16

Wow that’s deep . Thank u that’s helps . But why does my sister love to be around my brother and they love to be with each other holidays vacationing all the time. he sexually abused her continuously more than me .how can they hang out with each other and lean on each other in life. That confused me

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