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My boyfriend is stupid.I don't want this to sound mean but h

Pestisor's picture
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My boyfriend is stupid.I don't want this to sound mean but he is just not here,It's like he does not think most of the time.He is a good guy and he is dear to me but idk what's up with him...I am really not sayng that he is stupid from a place of meanees otherwise I would not have been with him but I started to wonder lately a lot of the times if he is not mentally chalanged maybe.Idk.I want to connect with him so much some days but I just can't.I talk to him and make jokes and try to connect but he is just so slow to respond,idk.Like we can't talk on the same level,and trust me,I'm not by any means a genius myself but I get so frustrated when I talk to him and he just isn't there.He is just sitting and looking straight forward but not aswering anything,not making any convo or expresing any ideeas.I try to uderstand him but I can't seem to manage to do it,and it makes me to feel loneyer day by day in this relationship.

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Pestisor's picture
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Feb 21

@bebobaBetty He is almost the same with other people.And he repeasts the same storyes over and over again.I really don't wanna be mean to him but it frustrates me to hear the same bs over and over again and it's not even interesting or insightfull bs.

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Feb 21

@Pestisor my boyfriend, or ex I guess, is the same way, I have tried talking to him about it and just says he does not now how to express his feelings. it's like a mental block. My guy meets the definition of alexithymia very similar description. That is a very hard thing to deal with, I am at the point of trying to decide if I could live with that or not.

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mmadwaite's picture
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Feb 21

@Pestisor Well we've all been there. My stbx has so many problems and I ignored all the red flags. Who knows what's wrong with this guy. He has issues and in my opinion, you should get out as soon as you can. Believe me, I know it isn't easy. This kind of stuff really escalates after marriage.

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