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Who would ultimately ever want to be in a relationship with

Who would ultimately ever want to be in a relationship with me or even consider marriage with me at this point. If I can’t properly manage my bpd and even if I do does it really matter to some of these guys ? I’ve been labeled so many times as the crazy chick or unstable woman so many times . And you know what happens I become more enraged and cycles to depression and shame. Tell me who could deal with me? They see me and think nothing is wrong because I’m passable for attractive and put together and then the moment it comes out they look at like I’m not even a person anymore. Like I don’t deserve love or anything like that.i can’t help but to things black and white it reassures me . I can’t have in between it needs to be all or nothing. What’s wrong with that? I need the reassurance because I can read disappointment a mile away and I need to know I’m not right.Thats who iam and yet now I recently been told that something wrong with that and the entire time it wasn’t normal . I don’t know how to interact with anyone now that I have to accept that the whole time I wasn’t normal .

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Nov 9

There is not one of us on this earth that is normal or worthy my friend. We all have our issues, but that does not make us unloveable or unworthy of love. I can promise you there are people out there who will love you and accept you with all the baggage. I know because I am like you. It took me a lot time to see myself the way God sees me but it is so freeing! There is hope. Someone will come along but in the mean time God is waiting to give you that love and acceptance you seek. “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30

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Nov 9

If u look to someone else for your happiness enevitably man will fail yu once in a while thier is a good one but most people waste there precious energy on persons that are not worthy or capable of being the one .

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Nov 11

@Ms.Bridges we all pick up messages from a variety of sources that cause us to think we are not lovable or deserving of love. But it is our choice whether we hold onto those messages or recognize them as lies and release them in favor of the truth of what God has said in the Bible about our value and worth. Meeting with a Christian counselor has been a huge help during times in my life when I have been stuck in negative patterns of thinking and needed help to overcome them. Have you ever done this or considered this?

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