So I think I've decided to take my husband, who has been inc

So I think I've decided to take my husband, who has been increasingly transforming into a woman, to a local trans/crossdresser event for his birthday. I want to be supportive but i'm worried that I may be pushing him to become a woman. I think he will enjoy it but I would also like to stay married to my husband who occasionally wares women clothing. Any advice?

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[6125]
Oct 24

This is a very new topic to the world, meaning discussing it out in the open. If you think you can stand by the man you love, but he is no longer that male presence in your life. Your husband is now a she, assuming she prefers to be called her chosen female name. This is something I think you need to think about long and hard. Not just that you want to be married to your husband. The lovely birthday present you want to give him. Will that make you comfortable? How about him with you there? So many questions. If you want to express how long its been going on. How long you have known. Kids involved. Where you live. My area would be awful to this person. They are so behind times and very much old school type way of thinking. Very ignorant to the whole thing. Gays/lesbians are still having a hard time here. I wish you and your family all the best. I hope you all get to that happy place within yourselves and others and enjoy your life. The one thing on this site and anywhere is WE ALL DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT AND DIGNITY AND FEEL LOVED BY OTHERS!! Good luck. Hope everything goes well. I haven't been on the side in awhile. I hope this came in time for the birthday.

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Oct 26

Thank you, yes it did. I am taking him and we will find out when I tell him and if he is excited for it. We have been together a long time and been through everything together. Locally no he would not be accepted, regionally yes and that is why I can take him to the event I spoke of. I myself am excited to go so he will have backup if needed and allow us a getaway from house and hearth. My kids have seen some of his changes already like wigs, kimonos, and waist shapers but they think its weird dad doing weird dad things. We will see how it goes.

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[6125]
Oct 26

I wish you all the best. Don't go in with any expectations, therefore emotion wise no disappointments can happen. You sound like a very strong lady. I am sending my thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this unsure time in all your lives.

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