Hi everyone, I’m a 30-something bisexual female. I am in

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Hi everyone,
I’m a 30-something bisexual female. I am in a committed hetero relationship, and my partner is sort of vaguely aware this. Very few people know, and I’m really struggling with coming out.
My first sexual experiences were with females, and I have had several over the years, although I’ve never been in a full blown relationship with another woman. I exclusively watch female/lesbian porn, and in order to orgasm I have to visualize/fantasize about women. My partner only knows about an encounter or two (prior to our relationship), but thinks that’s the extent of it.
Though I’ve known I am bisexual from a very young age (as a preteen I had posters of Jennifer love-Hewitt on my bedroom walls instead of Leo DiCaprio like all my friends) I’ve had a hard time coming to terms with it, and I don’t really know what to do with it, if that makes sense?
I guess I’m just looking to chat with people in similar situations, or who have struggled with something like this in the past?

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Jun 19

Hi! Almost same story here... Married for 13 years with a man, just got divorced. I am bissexual too and struggled with that. A part of myself was missing. He knew I was a bissexual from day 1 but always seemed to think it was just a phase or something buried in the past. He didn't like me to use the word bissexual, and would only talk about it to fantasize with a 3way with another woman, which never happened. We have 2 kids and got divorced 6 months ago. I'd love to chat, maybe we can support each other...

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Jun 22

@NatalyGR I’d love to chat - I’ll ‘support’ you so we can message :)

2 hours ago

I feel your pain I'm 37 and also in a stable relationship but had an encounter with a man in my teens and can't shake the though I've also recently discovered that I have a attraction to trans women and I'm am very stuck and have no idea which way to go


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