Need to see if anyone has any advice out there. I'm married

Need to see if anyone has any advice out there. I'm married and have two AMAZING kids whom I adore. But...I'm bisexual, and while I'd played around a bit before getting married, never really came to that realization/ admitted it until after I was married. Now...now I miss being with women. My husband os totally okay with threesomes, but that's not what I want. I want to actually be with a woman. It's stupid, everyone fantasizes about someone else (at least occassionally), but it's hard to fantasize being with a woman when you're with a (very hairy!) man. Just needed to (anonymously) put this out there, see if anyone had been through something similar.

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Jun 18

I don't know. I just think what you are suggesting is wrong. I tell people my opinion even if it isn't what they want to hear.

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Jun 19

@adnagrekl It is hard because there are feelings and then is the desire to be single and open to dating and sleeping with whom you choose. If he is open to threesome, perhaps you can find someone you trust and he watches. Not ideal, but workable.

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Jun 22

I'm going through the same thing. I realized that if I am having this much doubt in our relationship, I should end it. I did fantasize him as a girl, and it was the best sex we've had. But still nothing like a real girl, so I broke up with him. Love is worth waiting for

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